Drop them a line!
So you’ve finally spotted the guy or girl of your dreams — now what? Don’t just wink, poke, nudge, or whatever other nonverbal method of communication the platform offers.
“We write a very short e-mail that we feel expresses them but also says a little bit about the person they’re trying to reach,” Sloan said. “If they get an e-mail that speaks to nothing in their profile, they know this person is just sending it to everybody.” A personalized message with an open-ended question is always more effective than an impersonal note.