Re: Bouncing between two exes - Comment box alternative
posted at 1/23/2012 11:53 AM EST
To: LW Torn between 2 Lovers
Hey there young lady - FICKLY MUCH???!!!!
Song for today "Torn Between Two Lovers" by Mary MacGregor
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY GAAAAAWWWWWWWD.
At first I was going to say - I've been there....BUT WAY BACK WHEN, WHEN I WAS dating more than one guy at a time and couldn't choose, I DIDN'T CARE - I DIDN'T FALL IN LOVE WITH EITHER OF THEM and totally let my dates know that - and was totally up front to them that I'm just dating around and I don't want anything serious.....
I've never LOVED 2 MEN AT THE SAME TIME IN A DEEP LOVER/ROMANCE WAY - therefore I don't know what to tell you.....Again - like I said, when I liked 2 guys then I just dated both of em BUT I WASN'T IN LOVE WITH ANY OF THEM......
I think you need to see a shrink first and find out what it is that you really feel (if anything - maybe it's just sexual or hormone driven, I don't know....)
THEN - if I were you, I'd just date around with different guys and be up front about that in the beginning AND DON'T GET INTIMATE WITH ANY OF THEM TILL YOU THINK YOU ARE IN LOVE....You act like sex is like a 'nice meal of bacon & eggs' - IF you treat sex as such it's not a good thing and it won't be special with anyone......
PEOPLE ARE NOT TOYS TO BE PUT DOWN WHEN YOUR BORED & THEN YOU GO PICK THEM UP TO PLAY WITH THEM AT YOUR EVERY WHIM.
Men are human beings - just as women are - people have feelings.....
HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT if a guy did this to you?????!!!
Just remember 'KARMA' - this situation could be you next time in that YOU ARE THE ONE BEING DUMPED AND HE WANTS HIS OTHER EX INSTEAD OF YOU AND THEN HE GETS SICK OF HER AND GOES TO YOU AND BACK AND FORTH AND BACK AND FORTH......It's total INSANITY. How would you feel??!!