Re: Rusty Vs TFB12, one poster stays one leaves the forum. You decide, vote here.
posted at 11/12/2013 3:56 PM EST
In response to TFB12's comment:
In response to NYC's comment:
You contribute a lot here but your problem is you are letting someone get under your skin. You feel you are being treated unfairly, that Rusty is not abiding by the rules, that he goes back on his word, etc. Maybe, you are right but why are you letting someone affect you so much? I am suggesting that you look at your part in it. What do you contribute to the conflict? What allows you to get so upset?
Pride, ego and control are big issues for most of us. Pride (being right) has eaten my lunch on many occasions and I have paid the price with being angry uselessly or hurt other people with it or separated myself from others because of it. Why put yourself in one of those positions? Why do you need to be right or have your own way?
Perhaps, I am being a bit personal with you but I want you to know that as I ask those questions of you I also ask them to myself.
Thanks for the post.
I'm tired of how he ruins the forum. I'm tired of how he attacks everyone who doesn't agree with him. I'm tired of him making up lies and false claims. I'm tired of him doing whatever it takes for him to push his ridiculous, lie filled agenda. You try to have a reasonable discussion with him and all he does is attack. He has a serious problem with having to be right all the time.
We have fans from other teams here, big deal. It's good back and forth discussion and never gets out of hand until Rusty gets involved, then it is a mess This place would be so much better without him here, or heck even if he changed. Well, he isn't going to change so there goes that. He is more trouble then he is worth here.
Hey, I don't care what he says about me. I have a wonderful life, I hang here to add to my football enjoyment, lots of great and fun people here. That's it. And then you have Rusty who drags it all down. He doesn't have to believe anything about me, but it is beyond ridiculous the same attacks, over and over again, lie after lie even after I told him a million times. That is exactly what a forum troll is. Its the same garbage from a guy who seems to be a complete fraud, someone who seems to feel the need to break people down to feel better about himself. He is a mental midget, a loser in life and all he does is cause problems here.
How many people do you see me argue with like I do with him? How many people do you see him argue with like he does with me? It's like a 1:50 ratio. Does that not show what is going on here with him? He is a child who has to have his way. Can not accept any other way.
I see you as a very creative and generous guy who adds a lot humor and energy to the board. And I appreciate that. I am a more sober type so I cannot give that.
I understand how tired and frustrated you are dealing with continual attacks and insults. No one deserves that and you have a right to stand up for yourself. My concern is you are allowing yourself to be baited, to be drawn into a pissing contest. Pissing contests are fun for a few minutes but they are exhausing in the long run. Why respond if you find the other person's assertions to be ridiculous? Why bother to defend yourself any longer? What makes you think you can convince someone to be different? (For that matter, why do I think I can change you or Rusty? That is rather silly of me!)
Everyone here on this board has been insulted at some point or another by another poster. Insults are nothing new in life. We all just have to let it go and understand we have little control over other people, especially when others behave insanely.
Think of this as a message from BB and/or TB: control what you can control, do your job. Our job is to not take other posters posts personally. It is stay on message and enjoy the Pats.