Re: The Pats have no excuse not to sign Bobby Bouchard
posted at 3/2/2010 1:34 AM EST
In Response to Re: The Pats have no excuse not to sign Bobby Bouchard
Well, we were friends first. We worked together for about a year. We were both in a relationship. Shitty relationships. But relationships. So nothing happened. She's kind of old fashioned and is used to guys making the first move. She has a little bit of an arrogant streak in her. And she is completely out my league. Not that I'm ugly. But she could be a model. She's out of most guy's league. I didn't want to give her the satisfaction of shooting me down. But I knew if I didn't move in, somebvody else would. So I swallowed my pride and made the first move. By the time we actually got together, with all the buildup and tension, it was insane. We have been together for a while now and we are past the screwing like rabbits phase- usually that's about the time I check out. But I'm honestly okay with that. Never thought I'd say that about a relationship. I'm not ashamed to say I actually enjoy spending time with her. And on more than one ocassion recorded the game to spend a Sunday with her. Of course, she's also smart enough to know better than to try to drag me to a shopping mall. She has her sister and her girlfriends for that. Everyboy goes through filler girlfriends before they find "the one". You know, girls you don't really love. But you stay with because of the sex, or you don't want to be alone, or whatever other reason. Some guys even end marrying them. If that's all she was, then I would have been long gone by now. I really do hate east coast winters. It just seems like I've always had something holding me here against my will. Before this, it was a sick relative. Everybody says men are pigs. I don't buy it. I was just like a lot of guys until I met the right woman. It's different when you are actually in love. It's completely different than every other relationship I've ever been in. Okay, that was probablythe gayest thing ever posted on boston.com I never actually would have said any of this to another guy's face. But that's the beauty of the internet. I'm bored and anonymous Whatever. Flame away.
Posted by dafoe
Great post Dafoe
... You should know me by now, ALL candor. Respect truthful sentiment OVER all else. So here, I'll help your honesty along, here: Towards the end of College, I moved down to Orlando to take a year hiatus with a girl I had met, now going to school down in FLA. Just wanted a break from what I had previously enjoyed so much @ school: unbridled thirst for knowledge, plain and simple. Unfortunately, cr#p work & easy atmosphere led to cr#p lifestyle with cheap beer. Gave up, went back to school up here, but kept same company (i.e. same girl)- After college, moved in with her and drank and drugged my complacency & self-doubt away...CANNOT blame it on her, just same company, for better or worse while IN a "situational worse", you cannot have
and hope for change
or improvement. Last 5 years, NO girls at all (seriously). And (hate ego), but I'm in no way a bad-lookin' dude, BUT just a guy who came to a similiar form of "awakening" as you=Can't hope to be with others, until you're comfortable with yourself, can't hop on board with a girl simply through lonliness, company or whatnot... Still just trying to maintain and fix my own sh!t first-I don't care if it takes a lifetime...
SO there...now they can rail on me, but just gotta warn the j#rks that I'm the original bad boy on your case, you'll cover your face when I come at'cha low ta blow away haters with hate; kick you in your tummy til your sick to your stomach, spin your head with brick words til you fall on your face and plummet-If y'all don't like me, you can k!ss my - til it's numbb-it; And all that pr#ck jibberish, you might be spittin', ya need ta kill it, cause that style is like dyin in my sleep, I don't feel it; So I'm an alcoholic and thas all I can say, I call in ta work, cause all I do is frolic and play; I post out grenades and take a bottle'a Tylonel 3 as I talk about how violent I be; I strike a still pose and hit'cha with some ill flows that don't even make sense, meanwhile I'm stealin your billfold- Somethin, somethin, somethin, I get meeded? Oops, I scribbled over that part, and so I can't read it...
~What were we talking about dafoe?