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Posted 04/16/2014 10:34:51 EDT
We had some benign interactions where nobody showed clear interest. I'm totally in love with him. Should I push him to feel the same way as me?
Posted 04/14/2014 12:47:26 EDT
I'm using this thread as my opportunity to say how much I hate when people describe their great relationships as "we have so much fun together and never argue" (and on here then go on to describe what more »
Posted 04/14/2014 12:41:29 EDT
I'd like to know if she knows that this is even a concern of his. This would be important information in the decision making process of whether to marry this guy. Sadly, no one prefaces there proposal more »
Posted 04/10/2014 03:55:20 EDT
As to the wising up, I think the attention Ws do finally get theirs. In your 20s and even early 30s, a lot of these women can get away with it, but eventually as they age (and maybe ain't so cute anym more »
Posted 04/04/2014 11:55:03 EDT
You bring up a great point. Bad moods can be more than just chemicals in her brain. It could be the little things that she's picking up on that she knows he's not really there (she knows in HER gut to more »
Posted 04/03/2014 12:25:53 EDT
And I would start looking for a new job for if and when old Anna shows up. Either that or get completely over this loser.
Posted 04/02/2014 01:09:58 EDT
A freshman friend of mine had unconsenting sex, or was date raped, by a popular senior in college. When she went to the college to report him, they gave her the choice: report it and get expelled for more »
Posted 03/31/2014 01:20:22 EDT
Soul mates under his definition mean two people who's set of neuroses fit together perfectly. These are the ones with the most "chemistry", are the most magnetic, and the least likely to be healthy or more »
Posted 03/20/2014 01:06:49 EDT
Costa Rica has become much more expensive. But still beautiful as H. Love those sloths. more »
Posted 03/19/2014 12:45:33 EDT
I think the kiss is permission to fall head over heels in love. But she can't do that until she knows it *all* by a kiss. I see drama after this kiss. Dating can be slightly horrifying but she is goin more »
Posted 03/11/2014 11:30:32 EDT
Read: Why ask LL for any advice at all? You should already know what to do and not be writing in.
Posted 02/28/2014 02:28:56 EST
I think she's accepted she can't change him and just wants a little support that it's ok to dump somebody bc they are a bum.
Posted 02/25/2014 03:42:22 EST
And whatever you do, if you get into a relationship with him, don't let him travel without you!
Posted 02/21/2014 12:09:14 EST
Substitute "run" with "walk" and I 1000% agree with you. I wish we had poll options for these letters.
Posted 02/19/2014 12:48:34 EST
Seriously. 90% of the time, I just skip over the old pink tulip. Wait in GD line like everybody else. Nobody cares what you have to say about EVERYTHING.
Posted 02/12/2014 12:14:06 EST
I think anybody who qualifies these things as relationships has real intimacy problems on multiple levels. A sex drive should at least drive you out of the house. You have got to be scared of life/peo more »
Posted 02/12/2014 12:06:03 EST
I can't believe this qualifies as a relationship. Sounds one step down from the bottom-of-the-barrel relationship of only text messaging.
Posted 02/11/2014 11:41:25 EST
I 1000% agree with all of this with one caveat: if he wants to make amends, let him say he is sorry. Just two words: I'm sorry. You don't care about his reasons or about what a bad guy he is. But lett more »
Posted 02/06/2014 12:41:09 EST
I know that I won't be able to get everything I'm looking for in one person.
How about getting anything you want from this one person? I mean, besides the intermittent porking.
Posted 02/05/2014 01:06:37 EST
How about "change your expectations"? Do NOT expect to make some instant "connection" and if you do, still don't ever plan on hearing from the person. Treat the person like a new colleague, not a pote more »
Posted 02/05/2014 12:57:04 EST
one of the emotional tricks that I learned was to actually do a date that would be fun, regardless of whether you ever saw the person again. If you assume you aren't ever going to see the person again more »
Posted 02/04/2014 01:30:37 EST
I would just add that just because a person has anxiety or GAD (I do, and it can be crazy), it doesn't have to stop a person from doing anything, although it might make them miserable at times. You ca more »
Posted 02/03/2014 11:43:24 EST
Sorry, I am shamelessly tagging on to this, because I feel so strongly about it. Newly separated or divorced people *think* they are ready to be involved, even though many of them know they are confus more »
Posted 01/31/2014 02:19:38 EST
Wow. Hadn't thought of that---kind of like Pirates of the Caribbean. "They killed everyone down to the last man. Oh yeah, then who was left to tell the story?" I thought she meant that he recently was more »
Posted 01/30/2014 04:08:56 EST
My friend just called after an interview at Whole Foods as a shelf-stocker, as a second job. Her primary is a good job (but not cutting it salary-wise) and she has a Masters. They told her at WF that more »