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About Me: Work in Boston, Live in Worcester.
Yeah, I know it's a long commute.
Posted 04/17/2014 09:30:19 EDT
It's been six months. Relax. I suspect that you are moving too fast for her and I can see why she might want to back off a bit. Give it time.
Posted 04/15/2014 09:48:21 EDT
I am wondering if this is why you spend so much time with her. Checking on her? Not wanting her to have a life on her own?Hold off on any proposals, and work this out.
Posted 04/11/2014 09:08:53 EDT
I do not believe that people change in any fundamental way, so your marriage would go back just to the way it was. You are right to get a divorce, but it's natural to have second thoughts on do some g more »
Posted 04/07/2014 09:15:38 EDT
You seem unwilling to reveal much about this (that includes lack of gender and whether or not the third party knows).
but you would be foolish to stay in this. get out now!
Posted 03/31/2014 09:40:10 EDT
"We are both jealous people" Sounds like a match made in heaven :( Not sure how many times you want to get on that merry go round, but I would say that instead of calling your "soulmate" (and of cours more »
Posted 03/21/2014 09:35:34 EDT
There is a Santa Claus and he watches porn. What else is there to do in the frigid north pole?
Posted 03/21/2014 09:33:09 EDT
Are there any cameras around your house... in the bedroom?
I can see why this would bother you and I agree that couples counseling is appropriate.
Posted 03/20/2014 02:22:30 EDT
According to reliable sources,there are virgins in paradise.
Posted 03/20/2014 09:56:39 EDT
Not sure why you would say: "I don't deserve to have him taken away from me."
Sounds like he would be leaving on his own free will.
Posted 03/17/2014 09:40:02 EDT
This isn't just about sex. This is about a whole new philosophy which you cannot buy into. Leave her and tell her to go on one of those Christian match services.
Posted 03/12/2014 10:33:36 EDT
I knew a woman who cheated on her husband several times. She would leave just enough information so that he would find out. I think she enjoyed having him find out and then patching things up with h more »
Posted 03/12/2014 09:55:59 EDT
there are virgins in Boston?
Posted 03/12/2014 09:43:27 EDT
And you say you missed him, but you didn't say you loved him.
Posted 03/12/2014 09:41:49 EDT
I am wondering how the LW found out. Did he just feel guilty and confessed, or did she catch him in the act. Makes a difference, as I see it.
Posted 03/06/2014 11:45:48 EST
No, but you are being selfish!
Posted 03/06/2014 11:34:13 EST
he communicated by telling her he was tired of fighting. The best way to avoid fighting is to be quiet and wait for her to leave.
Posted 03/06/2014 10:09:10 EST
He initiated the breakup cause he was tired of the fighting. Maybe he doesn't like to fight every day.
Posted 03/06/2014 10:07:03 EST
Yeah, it's automatically the guys fault and of course, he was cheating. Sure. The fact that she is uncommunicative and refuses to show her feelings has nothing to do with it. It's always the guys fa more »
Posted 03/06/2014 09:55:39 EST
He's a guy. Has to be selfish!
Posted 03/06/2014 09:52:04 EST
Agreed. If she can't be honest with him about her feelings then there is no relationship.
Posted 03/06/2014 09:50:27 EST
I don't see how he is a selfish jerk. Things didn't work out with you two (for whatever reasons) and he is giving you some time to move out (which seems kind of nice to me, he didn't insist on you ge more »
Posted 02/27/2014 11:25:24 EST
cmtess: You CAN'T be that old !
Posted 02/27/2014 11:13:17 EST
The communication seems to be: I want it now. and I want it later.
Posted 02/27/2014 11:09:11 EST
It's always open :)
Posted 02/27/2014 10:29:47 EST
OMG, I never gave her a ring. I am not a man !!!