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Comment on: She won't stop texting my boyfriend - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
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Comment on: What happens after the breakup? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Grappling with his identity? Eh, seems more like he kept throwing out reasons why "it's not you/LW, it's me" in lame attempts to break up with her and seeing which one would stick, thereby officially more »
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Comment on: A 40-year-old ... something - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
This. I hope you don't have unreasonable expectations about women from whatever genre is your favorite....
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Comment on: How do I help him with his anxiety? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
He sounds very low maintenance to me - he wants nothing from her. Actually nothing.
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Comment on: How do I help him with his anxiety? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
You dated for approximately 6 months, during which you broke up at least once. So you really dated less than 6 months. And during this time, you had already progressed to the "I love yous" and then more »
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Comment on: He said my friend looked hot - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Brother in law says your friend looks hot. Another relative said friend looked hot, and husband agreed. What was he supposed to say - she looked terrible? Anyway, this all stems from BIL's admir more »
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Who does this priest think he is, practically going on a PR circuit about how his parishioner feels about a very sensitive, very upsetting, and in fact quite tragic sitation?
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Comment on: Sharing a home with my ex - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
He wants to get back together because he's tired of making his own sandwiches in his downstairs apartment. and he's not helping because he doesn't have to - it doesn't sound like you have any child su more »
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Comment on: He won't get physical - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Many things about this "relationship" concern me - LW, if your best friend or sister was beginning to date a formerly homeless recovering alcoholic that she met online, what would you say? "Definitel more »
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Comment on: I come from money - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more#comments
They're so different on money and lifestyle views because SHE HAS A TON OF MONEY AND CAN LIVE ANY LIFESTYLE SHE WANTS WITHOUT A SECOND THOUGHT, whereas her boyfriend is making a good salary now but DO more »
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Comment on: I've got no libido - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
His ex was hotter. more »
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"And how do I deal with the fact that the physical standards I look for are so high because of how attractive my ex is?" Well LW, I wasn't really on your side while reading your letter (you think sh more »
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You "tried" to break up with him, but "he could not understand my perspective, calling me selfish." What is there to understand - you don't want to be with him. He doesn't sound like he wants to be wi more »
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Comment on: Second-guessing the break-up - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
He hurts you. You think it's unintentional, because "he just doesn't get it." What is there to get? I don't know the specifics of the things he has done to "unintentionally" hurt you, except that y more »
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If she was experiencing low libido, she probably would not find him attractive-sexually attractive-as a result. The libido is what makes the difference between feeling appreciation or respect for bea more »
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LW: My advice to you is not directly relevant to your relationship problems, but indirect. Have you had a full work up, including checking your hormones, in the past year? You not being attracted to y more »
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Comment on: Are texts enough? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
I would love a texting dentist.
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"Honest." HONEST!? Let's see .... lied to his wife for 11 years. Claims to want "friendship" with whirlwind-romance support group lady whose world he wants to "rock." Despite having JUST gotte more »
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Comment on: Am I allowed to move on? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
This. End it KINDLY. By kindly, I mean don't go running right into the arms of Mr. Chemistry - and cool things off with him while you're straightening out the details of your break-up and move-out as more »
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Comment on: Did I overreact? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more#comments#comments#comments
I don't know JohnJohn - Here's what's going through my head: Her: Hi! Him: Hi! Her: OMG HE SAID "HI" to me! He's so HONEST - he said "hi" as an honest to goodness actual greeting!! That must mean more »
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Comment on: Did I overreact? - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more#comments#comments#comments
I'm having trouble posting too with Explorer. Anyway, I'll reply to your lovely post to see if it works. Yes I think you overreacted. But long before writing the letter. You overreacted by ascrib more »
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Comment on: The boyfriend at home - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
*user already liked this transaction* LW, it's only been two years, both of which were somewhat long distance. Since you've been more or less long distance, you haven't lived the day to day with th more »
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Comment on: His dad cheated - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more#comments#comments#comments
My thoughts exactly - there's little that gets my goat more than the flippant, insincere use of the words fiancee/fiance. (a letter writer of weeks' past mention of "talking about getting engaged" wi more »
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Comment on: Thinking about my first boyfriend - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
"like." âC,â the MUCH OLDER MAN who, though ânot abusive,â is a lazy snob, and dated the LW for 2 years beginning when she was FIFTEEN(!) is a predator and maybe they canât be in a room to more »
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Comment on: My boyfriend hates my friend - Love Letters - Relationships questions, advice and more
Here's my advice (not getting into whether Chris spit or Paul is girlie or what have you). You and your bf (Paul) skip 1/4 of the events entirely. You go to 1/4 of the events yourself - without your b more »
He has chosen "not making things awkward at work" over "not making things awkward at home," in other words, appeasing work friend over appeasing girlfriend. Do with that information what you will. more »