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Posted 04/14/2014 09:52:37 EDT
The thing is I actually like this LW. I really do. He comes across as one of those nice guys that b e e y o t c h e s of a certain type just love to mess with, bad pun intended, as in mess with his bi more »
Posted 04/14/2014 09:40:44 EDT
I'm rethinking the advice I gave on page 2 -- I was too nice. This guy needs some tough love. ------------------ LW, if you cannot trust your girlfriend, you have no business dating, not her, not an more »
Posted 04/14/2014 09:19:08 EDT
You would not have bought that ring if you weren't serious about marrying her. So ask her. The trust problem is YOUR problem. Don't make it her's. She should not have to pay the price of your havin more »
Posted 04/11/2014 09:20:26 EDT
LISTEN TO YOUR THERAPIST.
Posted 04/10/2014 10:25:50 EDT
Put Alex in the middle, try to force him to choose ... she'd lose, even if she "won" by Alex siding with her over Jen. He'd resent the Letter Writer for her inability to play well with others.
Posted 04/10/2014 10:22:15 EDT
Rico, you forgot to tell her, "grow up!"
Posted 04/10/2014 10:03:08 EDT
It's tough love, and she needs it. She's self-sabotaging this whole situation instead of putting on her Big Girl Pants. If she came here hoping we'd be mean to Princess and give her pointers on how more »
Posted 04/10/2014 09:32:24 EDT
Jesus, talk about dueling insecurities, with you on the losing end through your own fault -- because you've got your own set of issues, but rather than facing that, you're focusing on Princess' issues more »
Posted 04/09/2014 05:10:26 EDT
Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, as defined by the DSM-IV-TR, include: Expects to be recognized as superior and special, without superior accomplishments Expects constant attention, ad more »
Posted 04/09/2014 05:08:36 EDT
Good point! The mental health pros have not yet figured out how to fix people with personality disorders. They're the bane of therapists' existence.
Posted 04/09/2014 10:38:27 EDT
Both married cheaters here were wrong. But I'll give the guy credit for ultimately growing a conscience and ending the affair. This woman who wrote us has no conscience. She's a narcissist who hates more »
Posted 04/09/2014 10:13:56 EDT
The difference is she's currently married. She has no business cheating on her husband with anyone else - single or married. If she wants no strings attached sex, then she ought to unattach herself more »
Posted 04/09/2014 09:57:09 EDT
You went looking for " ... a casual-sex-only relationship." You ought to have 1. gotten a divorce first, and then 2. found someone single to s c r e w around with for recreation. Casual relations more »
Posted 04/09/2014 09:47:48 EDT
::: rant font on ::: 1. Playing the cheater pitchfork card. The only thing worse around here than a cheater is a married cheater. 2. Playing the therapy card. You really are a glutton for punishme more »
Posted 04/08/2014 10:40:22 EDT
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Maybe the monthly hang-out with his friends coincides with her period?
Yeah, I went there. ::: sniggers ::::
Posted 04/08/2014 09:41:33 EDT
Admit to yourself you resent the bond he has with his friends.
Recognize that his friends actually like you.
Posted 04/07/2014 10:19:20 EDT
Bisexual is an interesting idea, one I hadn't considered. Maybe the primary relationship does involve someone who is bi and has permission to sleep with partners of both genders. Still doesn't help more »
Posted 04/07/2014 09:58:36 EDT
At the risk of stereotyping, this comes across as Mister Open Relationship, comes across as some guy who has given himself permission to be promiscuous. I do wonder about the Letter Writer gender. more »
Posted 04/07/2014 09:15:24 EDT
Definite manipulator. Preys on people with self esteem issues willing to settle.
Posted 04/07/2014 09:12:35 EDT
You're settling for being his piece on the side. You know you are. You want to be his first, his only -- instead, you're settling for seconds and hoping he'll ditch his real significant other. For a more »
Posted 04/04/2014 09:10:33 EDT
Tough love time ... Why haven't you actually sought counseling yet? You promised him you would, but at the time you wrote your letter, you still hadn't moved beyond talk. Instead of talking to a couns more »
Posted 04/03/2014 09:31:02 EDT
You don't trust the guy -- and you'll never trust him again. Without trust, you have NOTHING. End it. P.S. The continued snooping is wrong. You're punishing him and getting off on playing the ma more »
Posted 04/02/2014 09:59:00 EDT
::: Raises hand ::: Childless by choice. My mother had been one of those women who ought not to have had kids. She would have been happy as a businesswoman. But she bowed to family and cultural pr more »
Posted 04/02/2014 09:51:18 EDT
End it with your boyfriend. Do it now. You've invested four months into this relationship. Don't invest four years in something that's a non-starter. Because the child issue is a deal-breaker. DEAL- more »
Posted 04/01/2014 02:50:25 EDT
Ouch, Silver. The way you describe that particular ex sounds like a personality disorder, like narcissism. That's a whole different form of broken. Researchers are still split on whether people with more »